Risk

“He who deliberates fully before taking a step will spend his entire life on one leg.” Chinese Proverb

Over the past couple of weeks I’ve been implementing new technology systems to better support my clients as well as myself. A daunting task for me, especially since I am a technology-challenged individual. I faced great uncertainty: “Should I make these changes? Am I making the right decisions? What if I get something wrong and nothing works?”

Have you ever thought that your next decision would decide the fate of the planet? It may not be realistic, but it certainly feels possible in the moment. This was one of those moments for me.

The change–every part of it—took me out of my comfort zone. When I made the final purchase and pushed the final button, my body shook with fear. I called a friend to talk me down from the ledge!

I thought to myself, “Woman, pull yourself together.” And then I took a leap. I felt the fear and…I did it anyway. The result: I now enjoy more productivity, efficiency and freedom!

The next step calls even when, especially when, we are uncertain of what will happen next. This uncertainty can create anxiety and fear, especially if you believe that decision or choice will affect your life indefinitely. Sometimes, we must release our inner control freak. We must stop deliberating and take action. We must dare to be wrong or rejected or look foolish, or make a mistake. We must embrace the risk.

A study of 75 90-year-olds showed that given another chance, they’d take more risks. The glory of knowing they at least tried far exceeds any regrets or angst over making the wrong decision. May we hear this wisdom and act on it while we can.

On the day I made my “big” decisions to move forward, I received this Chinese Proverb. A coincidence? I think not. The universe prodded me to stop hesitating, stop mulling over the decision and step into the next moment. I’m glad I listened.

Don’t ruminate and hesitate for one more day. I challenge you to get off your one-legged perch. Do something that stretches your comfort zone. If you’ve been deliberating on something for awhile, take the step. Prepare to be amazed by what lies ahead.